Have you ever noticed how your child has a unique way of getting their point across? Like adults, children express themselves in different ways. Knowing their unique style can help them better interact with the world around them. If you’re having trouble understanding how your child communicates, our post will explore a child’s main communication styles and how parents can help.
Understanding Communication Styles
From temperament to environment to imitating their loved ones, a child develops their own communication style in many ways. Besides shaping how they express themselves, their style also influences how they respond to information and interact in social settings. Recognizing your child’s communication style will help you better understand their personality and help you guide their social and emotional development more effectively.
Four Main Communication Styles In Children
Most children will fall under these four communication styles:
Passive
When your child is a passive communicator, they may appear shy or quiet. They’ll have trouble expressing their needs or avoid saying something that may cause a problem. For example, if they’re given the wrong order at a restaurant, they may simply accept it instead of saying something. This style may sometimes lead to a child feeling ignored or not listened to.
Own Agenda
Children with an ‘own agenda’ style express their needs and desires but might struggle to listen to others. You’ll often see them playing independently, but they’ll have trouble focusing on the needs of those around them. For instance, the child might insist on playing their favorite game or discussing a particular topic, even if others want to do something else.
Sociable
Sociable children are naturally friendly and have no problem expressing themselves. They love to be around people and excel at both speaking and listening. In many cases, they might even be the ones to initiate conversations in a group and include other peers who are less outgoing.
Reluctant
A reluctant communicator may not always like interacting or might respond minimally when you ask them something. However, this doesn’t mean they’re shy. Instead, your child might prefer to process things internally or need time to “warm up” in social situations before opening up more. For example, a child with this style might answer you with short sentences, and you may need to engage them more before they get comfortable.
Help Your Child Communicate Effectively
No matter your child’s communication style, you can help them become more effective communicators. Encourage them to express themselves, practice active listening, and create easy activities that promote interaction in a fun, natural way. Remember, your child has a unique way of interacting with the world. Understanding their individual style can be a significant step in supporting their growth and development.
Are you interested in learning more about how to support your child? Our specialists at Tiegerman are here to offer personalized guidance and resources to help your child thrive. Please reach out and contact our staff today.
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